Learn essential parenting tips to raise children with good character and protect them from negative influences. Discover practical advice to foster a healthy environment for your children's growth and development.
Those who are desirous of the best character training of the children of their families have some suggestions at their service.
God willing, purity will arise in your children.
- Don't leave children alone for too long Nowadays, we neglect children by giving them separate rooms, computers, and mobiles. This is wrong And especially don't let them sit with the door of their room closed. Because loneliness gives rise to evil thoughts. Due to this negative thoughts arise in children and they become victims of wrong activities.
- Keep a special eye on children's friends and girls' friends. So that you know what kind of people your child is interacting with.
- Don't let the boy's and girls' friends sit with them in a closed room. If your child insists on sitting in his room, keep checking now and then with some excuse.
- Don't keep children idle. An idle mind is the devil's shop and children's minds are as clean as slate. Right from childhood, they are at that stage of age when their mind immediately accepts the influence of every kind of thing, good or bad. So keep them engaged in some healthy hobby while seeing their interest.
- TV is not the best pastime, but a machine for generating inferior thoughts, and video games make children callous and violent.
- Games that involve more physical effort are best for children so that the child gets tired and sleeps well.
- Keep a close eye on children's friends and activities
Remember being a parent is a full-time job. Allah Ta'ala has blessed you with the blessing of children and imposed a heavy responsibility on you. - Exterminating children before they are born for fear of lack of sustenance does not fall under the category of murder, but leaving them unrestrained to become the fuel of hell by training them poorly is also equivalent to killing them.
- Encourage your children to pray and make them the habit of being pure and clean at all times. Because the cleanliness of the body and clothes has a positive effect on the mind and soul.
- When children near puberty, they spend more time in the washroom than usual, then knock them out and explain them gently. If there is a repeated complaint from them, warn them. Explain boys as their fathers and girls as their mothers.
- Do not allow children to tease their private parts from childhood. This habit can lead to moral degradation and adultery in children near puberty or later
- Forbid the child from mixing with strangers and if he is angry with a relative or is too close to him, find out the reason in an unfeeling way with affection.
- From the age of 5 or 6, separate the bed and, if possible, the children's room so that their innocence can last for a long time.
- Keep checking the children's room and things insensibly. You should know what kind of things your children's wardrobe is full of. The problem is that in today's age, the monster called privacy has been imposed on us with the help of the media. Save yourself and your children from this. Because supervision of teenage children is also the responsibility of parents.
Remember that you are the parents of children, today's media is trying to reduce the position of parents in the eyes of children. We should give our children a sense of our benevolence through our compassionate actions and guide them through the physical changes that occur during adolescence so that they do not follow the wrong information from outside the home. Don't spoil it. - Let the children go to bed when they are sound asleep and when they wake up, don't let them stay in bed any longer.
- Parents should avoid physical abuse with each other in front of children. Otherwise, children will become aware of these things prematurely, which should be learned at an appropriate age.
Also, while reprimanding the children for their mistakes, parents should use polite and polite words. Otherwise, the children will develop impudence before the time, and the parents must bear the consequences. - If they are thirteen or fourteen years old, let the boys have their fathers and girls have their mothers explain Surah Yusuf and Surah Al-Noor to them, or teach them to a scholar, a scholar, how Hazrat Yusuf, peace be upon him, while being extremely beautiful and young, was an unparalleled person. The master of beauty does not go astray at the persuasion of a woman. In return, he was counted among the close servants of Allah Ta'ala.
In this way, children will not take their chastity for granted, God willing, and will protect their chastity and chastity well.
Remember, you are the parents of your children. In today's world, the media is trying to diminish the importance of parents in children's eyes. We must instill in our children a sense of our compassionate actions and continue to guide them through the changes they will experience during adolescence, ensuring they don't act on incorrect information obtained outside the home.
Lastly, let's remind ourselves that fasting helps us resist temptation in this life, guiding us away from what's forbidden. In the Hereafter, we're promised divine rewards for our efforts – enjoying halal sustenance under the benevolent care of Allah. May Allah safeguard the innocence of all children within the Muslim community, shielding them from the influence of Satan and his followers. Amen, and Amen. Almighty, protector of all creation.
May Allah protect the innocence of all the children of the Muslim Ummah and keep them safe from Satan and his followers. Amen, then Amen, Lord of the worlds.
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